Wet dreams can occur in both men and women going through puberty, but are most common in teenagers. Here's everything you need to know.
When you hear the term “wet dream,” what immediately comes to mind is what happens to men. But keep in mind that this can happen to women too. So the next time you realize there's something wet down there, it might be because of a dream you had last night. Wet dreams are more prevalent during sexual development, that is, when a person goes through puberty. Both men and women experience such events. Unintentional orgasms during sleep can be confusing or even embarrassing for some people. But wet dreams are nothing to worry about. Wet dreams are a completely normal phenomenon and here's everything you need to know about what causes wet dreams, why they occur during sleep, and why there are so many of them.
What is a wet dream?
“Wet dreams are a neurological phenomenon. This process primarily begins in the hypothalamus (located in the brain), which releases hormones and manages essential physiological functions. During the REM (rapid eye movement) phase of dreaming, the hypothalamus stimulates the production of sex hormones. This stimulation results in sexual arousal. “As dreams become more vivid and sensuous, dopamine levels rise, heightening feelings of pleasure and inevitably causing physical reactions,” says sexologist and psychiatrist Dr. Sanjay Kumawat.
When a boy has a dream like this, semen is produced at night. For girls, a study published in the Encyclopedia of Adolescent found that discharge may be normal and is nothing to worry about.
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What Causes Wet Dreams?
There is little research into the causes of wet dreams, but they are believed to be sexual dreams. A study published in the International Society of Sexual Medicine Journal found that some women experience nocturnal discharge due to sexual dreams. Hormones are also important components. Wet dreams often begin in puberty, so hormones are a reasonable assumption. When men begin producing testosterone, the male sex hormone, they often start having wet dreams. Testosterone levels rise during adolescence, increasing the likelihood of nocturnal emissions as the body adapts to hormonal changes, according to a study published in MedicinePlus Journal.
Other causes:
1. Erotic dreams
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The types of dreams we have can also affect how our bodies react when we sleep. Erotic dreams can trigger physical responses in the body, which in turn can manifest themselves. However, more research is needed to prove that claim.
2. Lifestyle factors
Lifestyle habits, such as stress levels and food, can also cause wet dreams. However, more research is needed to prove that claim. However, taking care of your diet and mental health can help reduce wet dreams.
Expose misunderstandings about wet dreams
1. Wet dreams lower immunity
Some people believe that wet dreams and ejaculation can be harmful to the immune system. However, there is no evidence that orgasms can harm your physical health. However, it may indicate normal sexual function.
2. Masturbation can stop wet dreams
Many people believe that regular masturbation minimizes the frequency of wet dreams, but that doesn't mean you won't have them at all. However, more research is needed to prove that claim.
3. These are always related to sexuality
Wet dreams are often associated with sexual dreams. But that isn't always the case. It is possible to have a wet dream without having an erotic dream. However, there is no research to substantiate the claim.
What should I do if I have a wet dream?
“Wet dreams, like dreaming, are a natural sleep process. There is no need to worry or believe the myths about them. Just clean up and go back to sleep. “As you get older and have more sexual activity, wet dreams are likely to become less frequent,” says the expert.
How to prevent wet dreams?
Wet dreams are a natural physiological phenomenon, so there is no one-size-fits-all approach to preventing them. The frequency decreases as you get older or become more sexually active. It's impossible to completely prevent it, but some strategies may help:
- eat a balanced diet
- exercise often
- better sleep
- Relaxation techniques such as yoga, breathing exercises, and meditation
- Try muscle relaxation techniques
All of these can help improve your overall mental and physical health. It may also reduce your chances of having wet dreams.
How to deal with wet dreams?
Although this is a natural part of human sexual development, some people may find it humiliating or unpleasant. Here are some tips to help you deal with it, as explained by an expert.
1. Wash yourself thoroughly after dreaming.
After a dream, clean the affected area, including your body, pants, and bed sheets. This may eliminate discomfort, odor, or stains.
2. Don't panic
Wet dreams can cause embarrassment, especially in shared living situations. However, it is important to remember that this is a natural aspect of human sexual development. Therefore, there is no reason to feel shame or guilt.
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3. No need to worry!
Understanding how common wet dreams are is an important step in coping with them. It is prevalent among both adolescents and adults. Therefore, it should not be interpreted as evidence of sexual immorality or lack of self-control.
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)
1. Are wet dreams the same as sleep orgasms or nocturnal emissions?
That's right. Sleep orgasms or nocturnal emissions are actually the same as wet dreams. As in wet dreams, vividly imagine sexual orgasms and ejaculation as part of the dream content.
2. Is it possible to have wet dreams only during puberty?
That's right. Wet dreams occur more frequently during puberty because the body goes through many hormonal changes. In this way, the body's reproductive organs try to maintain functional health. This may be why wet dreams appear more frequently in adolescence.
3. Is it normal to always have wet dreams?
No, wet dreams are a phenomenon of the dream stage of sleep, so it is not normal to have wet dreams all the time. If it happens too often, it may mean there is too much preoccupation with sexual activity and wet nights are frequent, disrupting the individual's sleep.
4. Do wet dreams have a smell?
If you do not wipe off any discharge remaining on your clothes or skin after ejaculation, it may cause an odor. To avoid these situations, wash with soap and water and change your bedding or clothing.